We often think that the social groups we are part of or the staff in our offices does not consist of many introverts, but the truth is that the concept of being an introvert is widely misinterpreted.
People associate specific characteristics with being an introvert, like being reserved or less talkative, but these traits are not facts. The points mentioned in this video might aid you in identifying introverts around you and refine your attitude towards them.
Focus on conscious listening. A noticeable distinction between an extrovert and an introvert is that an extrovert enjoys when you heed their words, but an introvert demands your interest. Connecting with their words is crucial as they notice body language too. These small physical movements are signs of listening attentively.
Ponder before talking. Extroverts prefer to talk out what they think, so introverts should respect this trait and adapt by speaking about what they believe. Extroverts can inform introverts about their methods so that both of them are on the same page.
Be considerate to their urge for seclusion. Introverts do not easily open up in public places, while extroverts are complete opposites. Introverts do not feel comfortable in telling personal attributes. So, it is better to talk to them in a secluded place if you want to discuss something personal, and they will be more than happy to express it freely.
Talk easily and smoothly. Not to hurt anybody, but introverts prefer consuming time to put together what they are saying. Introverts might enjoy pauses while they are eating as they take delight in breaks during discussions. They like pauses in the middle of what you are speaking so that they can experience the joy. Then they will reciprocate the conversation usefully.
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Finding an appropriate time and setting to talk with the slightest disturbance. Introverts prefer to be uninterrupted while communicating with you, unlike extroverts who can talk with you almost anytime.
Stop and expect a reaction. This point is to highlight the tip discussed before. Introverts take notes when pausing between your sentences as they connect the gathered data and make a sensible outcome.
You need to stop being formidable for a quick reply. Introverts scrutinize what you speak, so do not expect an immediate reaction as they take time to think and eventually give you an answer. You can be kind and give them time to think and connect to them later for the required response. This will be fruitful.
Give details and wait for them to analyze. Respect their need to process what you are talking about and if you are in a group conversation, ask extroverts first.
Do not go off track. Introverts prefer to talk about one topic exclusively in a one-time frame as they talk more deeply.
So, how do you plan to communicate with introverts the next time you meet them? Comment down your views and suggestions, and do share this video with others, especially with other extroverts.
Until Next Time,
Team Doctor ASKY!